
Today I was feeling so lonely, without the "one" to share "me" with...
It's not easy after 20 years of marriage and
now divorced, find a "true love", somebody that you can feel a romantic connection with...you become more exigent
in certain aspects because you know that a relationship is not only about "love", "external appearance" or "sex",
must have "commitment", "complicity" and "friendship" to lasts "forever"(or maybe for a long term relationship).
You may have clear in your mind what you really expect from a partner, that's a crucial point or you gonna find yourself
lost in the middle of thousands of profiles.
I think dating online is a great opportunity to know people from "inside" to "outside".
Of course the pics on profile are the first thing that will gonna caught your attention,
but when you start chatting with somebody it's not only appearance what really matters anymore,
you gonna know the other from "inside". Most people feel more comfortable talking about themselves without a visual contact, it's easier tell the other how you are in a deeply way...how you feel and then when the connection happens go to the next step...web cam, phone calls and know each other in person. The important thing in a online dating is have no rushing, no instant relationships so you wouldn't get hurt so easily...
I used to have a problem with women that contact me...50% don't read my profile and I know that because I'm so specific
about some details like: only Christians - do you know what ? A bunch of Agnostics, Jewish, Atheists, Muslims...
Not easy, right?
I had an experience that I consider important to me and I would like to share with you...
A woman. contact me from an unusual way, no flirt message, but an email and he wrote only in SUBJECT : I like the honest in your profile...
I immediately replied to her and she told me that she first read my profile then she took a look at my pics...
That is so RARE and I really liked the way we started chatting. She stopped visiting the site ( I checked that!)
and looking at my pics. And she only had two pics in her profile( not good ones...). She told me she wants to know me
"inside". We had a wonderful time together, we used to hear music while chatting, dancing in our imagination and for
several times she told me: " You know me better than anyone else in this world..." and I truly believe in her, because I
feel the same here... she knows "me" by inside. If you ask to my "ex" today about anything like: what's his favorite color?
what's his favorite food? what's his goals ...bla, bla, bla...my "ex": ????????????? My friend: !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
COMMUNICATION is the Big key for any kind of relationship...so be honest when you are talking about you...don't lie, don't hide yourself...
you are the other half of somebody out there...and he/she is looking for exactly what YOU ARE.
You may asking right know...what about that woman? Well, she is out there still looking for her half, just like me...
What about me? I've found an excellent girl for long-term relationships.
I don't want to say that you must visit this site. They are not free, but that small fee is worth paying.
Because you can find a guy/girl of your dream with one click (and not only in your country).
God Bless You!!
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